It was day 1!
Well! Day 1 when we met each other. It was a good and memorable day! We have indeed a lot of memories in Bhubaneswar!
When we both meet each other, that too after years in Instagram, I used to comment on her Photography Skills, lol! That's how we started talking slowly! It all feels so filmy these days! We met lately but we took some time to understand each other, we believed - 'Jo der se milta hai, dur tak chalta hai.' ❤️
Honestly, by the time I had to leave Army, I was 23-24 years old and I had seen a lot of life and understood a lot of people. I will give you an example, when I cleared SSB and my Blog was published in SSBCrack, I used to get a lot of doubts from a lot of aspirants, and I tried my level best to help folks, because I am from a Civilian background and someday I used to approach to Rishabh Bhaiya, who was my mentor, and I wanted to learn and do well for my goals. Some of those aspirants in later point of time became very good friends, I am quite certain some used to like me maybe! But, here comes the fun part! When I got injuries, I used to upload WhatsApp Statuses, if my surgery is done or I am traveling to Kolkata Command Hospital, people used to ask, what happened and If everything is alright!! At that time, it was such a mental trauma for me, I stayed in Hospital for 6 months, just not that, the irony is I was operated few days before my Passing Out Parade date and 09th March 2019 was my POP date and that day I was traveling back to Odisha after my shoulder surgery! At the airport, I was checking my coursemates earning those stars on shoulders, which I would never earn now due to the certificate issued by AMC Doctor - "Recommended to be invalidated out of Service due to Injuries attributable to and aggravated by Military Service." That was like a death certificate, something which crushed my goals, all hardwork, everything in few days. Realization came late, when I understood it's a part of life, I had everything, even my mother travelled from Bhubaneswar to Bangalore and then Bangalore to Pune, to see me. Same with my brother in law. I needed a lot of emotional support. I tried to call people whom I knew to feel better. Some of them, who used to call me on weekends to know how my training is going on and all! They showed a strange behaviour as if they don't care, some stopped talking!
I understood a life lesson about human behaviour - "They are only true people in your life who have never left you in your darkest of times!" I got to know who are true people, who are not.
When I was in MH Chennai, I had started talking to Samiksha. She never judged me that I got injuries or I can't become an Officer. On May 22-23, 2019, she proposed me and I said yes!
At the end of the day, we want someone that chooses us, over everything else, in any circumstances! That was her!
But, yeah, just like every other relationship, it has not been and it will not be easy, it has a lot of ups and downs with a lot of dynamics, we get irritated of each other, we fight so much, we don't talk to each other for a day or two, but at the end of the day, we know, our hearts refuse to give up on each other, and we will never give up, whatever it is. We are like the endgame! It's always meant to be!
Mikshawat - A journey of togetherness, officially started on 21 November 2021, when we got married and I wish we both do well in life, personally and professionally! ❣️
Jay Jagannath!
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